Dear Litvin Apr 8, 2020 16:55:27 GMT -4
Post by Souriquois on Apr 8, 2020 16:55:27 GMT -4
I am going to address you here.
I am not a doctor and don't know what's wrong with you, what undiagnosed personality disorder or mental health issue you have, but for the love of God, please get it fixed. I have never seen anybody so lacking of social etiquette and self-awareness in my life (and I work in tech which is full of autistic people, so that tells you something).
You have insulted me many times over on ABF, have a reputation of creeping out women (which you do, I am not the only woman you have creeped out), and you kept aggressively contacting me and trying to add me to your friends list. Why? Why did you not get the hint, that I did not want to talk to you or be your friend, why?
I will address this here:
Are you kidding me. That was my goodbye message I didn't intend to keep messaging.
Social interaction 101. If someone doesn't want to talk and makes that clear, don't respond.
I said bye genetics noob have a nice time during corona lockdown. It was rude and I apologize but how was that harassment?
It was harassment because it was a message after I clearly communicated to stop contacting me. If someone says stop, stop.
Accept my apologies and stop giving me headaches.
I'll accept your apology because it's becoming clear to me that there is something not right between your ears, or you are missing something, and maybe didn't learn the basics of social interaction when you were young, but you need to stop playing the victim. It was you who were giving me headaches by constantly contacting me, and not getting the hint that I did not want to talk to you or be your friend.
I'll leave you alone, I didn't know that you didn't want to talk until you communicated that.
I gave enough hints, by NOT REPLYING the many times you had tried to contact me, by deleting you from my friends list, but you didn't get it. That's not my problem, it's yours.
Just a word of advice: Stop being so aggressive. Stop contacting people several times. Insulting people does not endear you to them, and neither does cyberstalking them. Also, stop making excuses for your behaviour. I remember you blaming your personality type because of something you read on some quack site. This is not set in stone, it's not biologically determined. You can fix your behaviour.
But withdraw your report against me on Anthrogenica please.
No. And I also will not ask Elias to delete your posts on ABF. You need to come to terms with your problematic behaviour, and correct it, rather than just ask people to cover your ass all the time when you mess up. Consider this "tough love". I didn't think they would ban you from Anthrogenica, though. But, that's not my problem, as it's not my fault you have a reputation around Anthroforums of harassing women which may have contributed to their decision to ban you. Though, I am starting to realize now, it's not on purpose, it's because you really don't know how to interact with women (word of advice: MRA propaganda won't help you in that regard).
Consider it a favour, an act of grace, that I even gave you this much advice, and not just told you to fuck off outright.
Either way, until you straighten out, you are not welcome on this forum. In fact, I would strongly suggest that once this coronavirus nonsense is over, you log off completely, maybe even call your ISP and disconnect your internet at home, and call your cell phone provider to get rid of your data plan. Connectivity not helping you and obviously messing up your mental health. Go out, find a hobby that doesn't involve screens, and cultivate healthy face-to-face relationships with people in your community. Hell, you could even do that now, despite social distancing measures, since there are many organizations like food banks and Meals on Wheels desperately looking for volunteers right now, due to the pandemic. Volunteering with Meals on Wheels has actually helped me keep my spirits up through this whole mess the world is currently in.